My husband recently told me that a woman at our daughter’s daycare flirts with him. Apparently she is quite pushy and insistent.
So when he told me that I laughed and didn’t take it seriously. Also I trust him. And I hadn’t even noticed this woman.
But the next times I went to pick up my daughter I saw her. I said hello to her and she didn’t answer me.
Ok. Not a big deal. I still didn’t care.
Weeks went by and I asked my husband if she was still flirting with him and he told me that she annoys him, she tells him about her life. Sometimes she says things that don’t matter like how much she loves her jasmine tea..
But she also told him where she lives, she told him about her divorce and that she feels alone right now.
When I go pick up my daughter again this woman is cold and distant with me. When I arrive she stays away. I tried to lock eyes with her to show I was aware of her but she completely ignored me.
My daughter also told us that she told her “your daddy is handsome.”
“She had the same eyes as her dad.”
And she asked him questions about him, she asked what kind of job he does etc. where he works.
I asked my husband if I should go talk to her he told me leave it. What do you think ?
Another detail : I noticed that my husband doesn’t always wear his wedding ring.
It mostly happens when he does sports : he takes it off and sometimes forgets to put it back on. It doesn’t bother me that much but I told him to wear it properly when he goes to the school.
He replied :
“The ring doesn’t change anything, on the contrary. I attract even more attention with it.”
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TL;DR Woman at our daughter’s daycare flirts with my husband and ignores me. He told me to leave it. Should I react ?