I (F29) always had a hunch, but FINALLY got confirmation from my (M27) boyfriend.
This happens the day after I gave up my failing art career, so I’m in a huge slump.
But yes I confronted my boyfriend how we never have sex unless I insist, he hasn’t pursued me in months? Years? I’m not sure.
He admitted he’s no longer attracted to me. He says he can’t help it it’s his ADHD, but he still loves me and wants to stay together and get married.
I suggested we research to fix if, but it makes him
Uncomfortable so he won’t.
He is also unemployed and dropped out of university (as you can see we are both in a slump at the moment).I see him trying to get it together, and we’re in the process of preparing to move to a new home near the city.
He says once we move and he finds a job everything (including our attraction) will click back into place.
But I just have the feeling that’s not going to fix it.
I know those with ADHD need novelty, I’m just afraid eventually the novelty for him will be to leave me
Is there anything that can be done to save our relationship? I don’t want to live without intimacy from my partner
Tl;DR, : My boyfriend of 7 years says he’s no longer attracted to me, but he still loves me. What do I do