My wife has been going through menopause for a bit now. I admit at the beginning I thought I knew a little of what to expect, but boy was i wrong! So after the 1st couple times of me being a dick, I decided yea, maybe I better do a learning on the topic. I have definitely learned some but as men, I dont think we'll ever fully understand. I no longer pester her sex but do try and cuddle with her and let her know she is loved. There is a decent age gap between us. Been together 6 years. I'm 40 and she she is 51. The 1st 3 years we were having aex alot. Then not as much but still regular and then seemed like she lost all interest. She doesn't ever bring up sex or wanting to have it.. I occasionally will make a subtle comment and once in a blue moon we'll have e sex but I can tell it is painful for her I usually try to stop but she insists I finish. which is another issue. Before this started, it would take her a while to accommodate me. But she would get there and was good from that point on. Well now, I do try to stop but she insists I cum inside her. She's never said it but I think thats a fetish for her.. The problem is for me to cum I need to penetrate deep. Fastest way I've found and I can feel her get wet, while inside her I'll suck her toes and I blow pretty quick. But I don't like her in pain. Are women completely disgusted by other acts to men getting off? We both dress up for each other and it helps. She' doesn't like blow jobs much anymore but it happens some still. Do any of you enjoy giving hand jobs? Foot jobs? We discussed getting a mold of her pussy and the thought actually got her a little excited. I'm rambling. Anything helps. Thanks