I have had the worst time dating. My ex husband and I separated over 2 years ago and have been divorced for one. I started dating in May 2025 and to say the least it’s been awful. I met 2 men that I genuinely felt a connection with, both ghosted after intimacy. The other guys I’ve dated it’s nothing as interesting, maybe one or 2 dates and they ghost. I’ve been chatting with 2 men at the moment. One of them honestly I reply every other day, I don’t think he minds because he will still reply. He hasn’t made the effort to ask me out on a date so I don’t see that going any further. The other guy is from Canada (I’m in the US). We had originally planned on meeting in Chicago this week. The weather scared me and i also started having reservations so I canceled. He understood and asked if he could come to me instead. He mentioned he already had the days off and gets cheap flights from work. I haven’t agreed to it. I don’t know what to do. I feel like if this had been months ago I would be overjoyed that someone is willing to travel to see me but after the horrible experiences I’m feeling pretty numb about it.