So, I've been dating this girl now for 3 months, but I feel like she isn't really as invested or potentially just that could be who she is.
So, we met on hinge, she's in her second year of uni and I'm in my third. I don't go out too much (2 nights a week) and I do have hobbies but spend most of my time studying. She's out like 4 times a week and goes out a lot with friends in the daytime which I don't do quite as much as I like a peaceful life.
We message frequently enough, every couple of hours usually and call every other day but I always initiate the calls. I also give her compliments and tell her things (I'd love for you to come to mine, you should meet my friends, etc…) which I don't necessarily get back from her. She has called me cute a couple of times which really did annoy me.
Overall, I think she's just not that into me and it makes me a bit nervous because I do like her. I think I do behave in an overly affectionate and overly available way but that's how I was conditioned in my last relationship to someone very needy. Could it also be that I'm saying these things too soon? It almost feels like I'm chasing her and trying to make her feel good whilst she knows I'm not really going anywhere. She is loyal and I'm her first everything but the treatment I'm getting feels odd compared to what I had before and I'm not sure. Maybe I'm skimping too hard but my comments and actions for this girl are responded with an aww cute whereas in my last relationship it was like, she'd react full of love and lust and adore me for doing/saying the things I did.
This is like a half vent, half looking for advice but would appreciate anything. Thanks