We have been dating for 2 years now were friends for over 4 years prior to getting in a relationship. He is a very go with the flow type of guy and I am a big planner. He is just very chill about everything and expects me to be that way too but I can't.
I break up with him every time there is an inconvenience like if he doesn't do something which he tells me he will. I just get too annoyed at that moment and breakup after 10 days i get back together and this has been going on for 6 months. There are a lot of things that we have to improve within ourselves but I want to start with me. I have to make sure that I don't treat this relationship like my whole life and expect it to be perfect all the time. Every time a plan gets cancelled i'm so insanely dissapointed that i feel like I need to leave right now or else i'll keep getting hurt.
he has a lot of friends and is always keeping himself busy but I'm not an extrovert like him so I'm mostly a homebody and i even enjoy that until he just gets so busy and i feel left out. How do i stop making every move of his effect me?
I probably could have worded this better but i'm not great with words so i hope someone understands what i'm trying to say.