throwaway for obvious reasons, but i’ve been dating my super sweet bf for couple months now. on paper our relationship is great, we respect & love each other. he’s so amazing and understanding which why i’d hate to bring this up to him but our sex life is so boring from my perspective :/ he’s knocked out multiple times afterwards while i’ve never orgasmed once with him ??? i tried showing him a few times but he was so like.. idk bad at it 😭 i did help him out before anyone gets on my case, i just stopped bc he would spend 10 mins rubbing my left lip like hello that hurts. i haven’t fried my nerves down there bc im def able to do solo stuff so im lost rn. i’m thinking about busting out an anatomy chart bc i see a future with him but not a future without orgasms :/ sorry