Hi, this is a really dumb story. At the beginning of the year I kissed this guy in my year (were first year undergrads) at a party. In the weeks after it led to a lot of talking, flirting and some more kissing. We hung out a couple of times and went on a formal date diner once. We’re in the same friend group and class, and I just felt like it might not work out. Also I didn’t have any strong feelings back then, maybe because I need to be friends with someone first.
I ended up rejecting him, but we stayed good friends. This was back in October 2025.
The more time passed however, the stronger my feelings towards him became. It’s stupid, since I rejected him. I thought I couldn’t come crawling back and I didn’t want to give him hope, so sometimes I would push him away. But he would always come back.
When I ghosted him he kept texting me.
When there was a party he would always ask me to come along.
He would make attempts to make one on one conversation when we were in a group setting.
He would try to get physical contact in a way that made me think he still liked me. Like hugs, touching shoulders, touching hands etc.
This went on for months and I was actually planning on confessing I still had feelings for him last night. We went to the club with some friends. Until he suddenly dropped he had been seeing another girl since last week. She lives in his neighborhood and they went on one date, planning a second. Am I too late? Should I still tell him how I feel?
I also would like to mention I didn’t date other guys in the meantime, but I rejected them because I couldn’t get over him.
TL;DR: I rejected a situationship whos in the same class/friend group as I am, but months later I caught feelings again but hes seeing another girl.