Hi everyone, I’m a male student at an academically rigorous college, and I’m going through a pretty tough time. Recently, I haven’t been enjoying anything in my life because it feels like studying and socializing is all there is to do.
I have been socially successful in college, but for some reason I can’t make any meaningful connections and recently I’ve struggled with what I assume is anxiety in social situations (constantly evaluating myself in conversations and unable to focus on what the other person is saying). As a result, I feel lonely all the time despite having plenty of friends. I just can’t seem to open up to anyone, and I no longer have the energy to socialize.
I feel like I’m working towards this pointless goal of making a lot of money. I’m stressed out all the time trying to complete homework and keep up with everyone else socially. It seems like I’ve finally reached my breaking point and I’m not sure where to go from here.
Any advice is welcome, thanks.