I’m trying to figure out why it feels like I can’t seem to click with most of the women I talk to and I think this is why.
If I’m making all types of flirty jokes and conversation with someone and their only response is like “Thanks” or “Haha” then I get turned off super fast. Same thing with asking “get to know you” questions, if someone is just answering back and adding no follow up or anything extra to the conversation I get turned off almost immediately. It feels unfair because no, I don’t necessarily need someone who talks to me exactly like I talk to them, but I need someone who’s gonna add anything of their own to the convo/relationship. Is this a me thing or can anyone else relate here?