People have been saying for ages how easy it is for a woman to get a bf. I’ve been single for quite a while and have been back on the apps for a little bit, specifically bumble. If we’re speaking numbers, then out of 800 men, there will be at least a couple to go on a date with and potentially make a boyfriend, but no. I look at every single profile that has liked me so I’m being fair. I broke it down into numbers if anyone’s curious what it’s like to be a woman on dating apps
-Out of 800, at least 150 of them don’t speak any English at all. Nothing wrong with that, but a language barrier is difficult to start a relationship.
-650 left: say around 150 I’m not attracted to. I do like to keep an open mind tho.
500 left: 100 of them are walking red flags (alpha males, hotheads, mama’s boy etc)
-400 left: 250 of them are not looking for anything serious.
-150 left: 50 you match with, have a great first conversation, they talk about wanting to meet then you never hear from them again
-100 left: 30 message you asking for sex.
-70 left: 50 you message first and they don’t respond (on the app where women are supposed to message first…)
-20 left: These ones ask you ok dates, but when the day comes they ghost or “something comes up”
And now we’re at 0. Am I the only woman having this experience on the apps?