I finally worked up the courage to ask this person out. We've been talking for a few weeks, I thought things were going well, seemed like there was something there.

I asked if they wanted to grab dinner this weekend and they said "maybe, I'll let you know." That was three days ago. Haven't heard anything since. I'm trying not to overthink it but like is "maybe" just a nice way of saying no? Should I follow up or is that being pushy? Do I just wait and see if they actually get back to me? Part of me feels like if someone's actually interested they just say yes, right? But also maybe they're genuinely busy and need to check their schedule? I don't know.
Has anyone been in this situation? What did you do? I don't want to be that person who can't take a hint but I also don't want to give up if there's actually a chance here.

This whole dating thing is exhausting honestly.


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