For context I (27f) went on a really great date with this guy (30m) on Thursday night. We were laughing and riffing with each other the whole time and could barely keep our hands off each other after. We had been texting before, nothing extensive as neither of us are great texters but at least once a day. After our Thursday date I got one text from him Saturday morning. I responded Sunday with no response. I have been on a retreat since Monday evening with no cell service until this (Friday) morning when I returned. I essentially just want to ask if he’s been ghosting me or if I just didn’t get his messages while I was off the grid without sounding desperate. Not sure if I would even want to pursue things with him if it’s the latter since he had multiple days to text me before I went on the retreat (one of those days being my birthday) but I need the clarification to move on and i feel there is nothing to lose by asking.


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