I was chatting to a girl ages ago but the conversation stuck with me. She said something like "I intend to have a kid and long term relationship within two years"
I was like 😯😯😯😯
But I know a different girl who actually found the guy and had kid in short time like that, the relationship did not last though.
It feels like there's a massive sea of available non-awful men who are compatible with most women, but the woman consciously decided whether to allow the connection to happen or not based on if she is ready for long term relationship or not. Most of these guys are not special, they just need to be in the right place at the right time