I have been single since 4 years and am looking to date meaningfully.
I have tried bumble, hinge and even shaadi.com, a arranged marraige dating app in India.
I have mentioned that I am looking for something long term. Yet some like to mention it after matching, having conversations and exchanging numbers that they are looking for something casual.
Why do they feel so comfortable w wasting someones time like this? I feel I dont want to get jaded by this and continue dating. Though the apps seem to be too emotionally draining. Should I take a break from the apps? Should I focus on making more in person connections in places I frequent? I dont go anywhere other than the gym in my residential complex – everyone knows my father directly or indirectly so, its a huge turn off to date someone from there.
I am so confused.
I am a good average looking 29F, physically active, well educated and I earn enough for myself. I have pulled all men I have desired. But they seem to be only into something casual or the conversation just fizzles out.