39F matched with 39M, chatting for 2 weeks. FT date went well. Said he wants to visit me in my city, 2.5 hours from his.

I have two issues and am curious your thoughts.

  1. Asked if he should plan to stay at my place or his friends place (said no pressure either way). But ummm what? We haven’t met yet and you know I live in a 1 bedroom.

  2. When suggesting dinner spots, names a literal fast food burger place, a hole in the wall $10 plates or chain pizza spot.

I’m offended because he thought to even ask to stay with me for the weekend and then suggested fast food for dinner. I was hoping he’d take it upon himself to get a hotel and make us a decent dinner reservation. At least somewhere that we order from a menu and don’t have to get our own drink refills.

When we spoke I told him how I’m a foodie, eating out is my hobby and I love sushi…. Literally verbatim.

I’m so confused and want to address it before he comes next weekend. Otherwise he’s been so nice and very responsive. Help!


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