Hi everyone, I’m 18f and my boyfriend is 19m. We recently had an argument, and now he’s asked for a few days of limited contact so he can reflect on our relationship. He told me I can check in from time to time, but I want to make sure I do it in a way that’s healthy and respectful because I want him to feel safe with me knowing I’m respecting his boundaries
I’d especially love to hear from people who have been in relationships with partners who are more avoidant:
-How did you or your partner handle brief check-ins while taking space?
-What felt safe and supportive for both of you?
-Any tips for showing care without pressuring someone who needs distance?