I have been in relationship with this guy for 3 months ,after he persistently asked me I had to say yes. But I later realized he is not very empathetic towards people(the kind of people/guys I like) ,says very rude things over minor disputes like calling me a piece of shit and has said a very shallow thing to me once ,that he likes to go out with me ,cause he likes to flaunt being with a pretty girl(I'm not that beautiful).
Apart all this and is other reasons,like him being kind of shallow ,he always wanted to help me solve my problems and trying to be there for me ,which I liked . But we had no chemistry,we can't even talk about things at deeper level. I really wanted to break up with him ,cause being with him made me very anxious ( he acts very obsessed sometimes,he always wants to be around me and text me all the time).
But 2 weeks ago ,his mom died and I felt really bad for him .I tried my best to comfort him and talk to him.But I can't anymore I really want to break up ,but I don't want to make him sad and lonely either. I really feel bad for him ,But being with him makes me too anxious. I want to be there as a friend,as someone he can talk to but not as a girlfriend.