I feel hopeless tbh, i only went through a break up around a month ago and the relationship was bad and i was holding onto it too much because i was scared of being alone.. i downloaded tinder to see how my chances are out there and i really got disappointed..
Not to toot my own horn but i am an educated woman young woman (26) with a good job & degree. I have so many hobbies that i KNOW make me interesting to people (i paint, i garden, i write and i read a lot) and i know i am fun to be around and i am not too bad looking either but i feel like i cant seem to find the right people and its making me sad..
I want someone to match my depth and to see ME as ME. Not a romanticized version in their head that they’re infatuated with. I really want to find someone that matches my softness & the depth i see the world in but i cant seem to find people like that and its breaking my heart. Even my exes were not all that but i settled and i am so tired of settling for people who will end up hurting me anyway..
I really dont know what to do 😔