So basically, I have this one friend who only contacts me when they want something. And every time they contact me, I do try to help them, but when I call them, they never answer and every time I ask them to hang out, they always say no. Also, every time I try to help them, I have to go out of my way to help them. For example, if I want to give them something, they can never come to my place to get it. I always have to deliver it to them and if I want to pick up something that I let them borrow, they never drop it off at my place I always have to go there and pick it up myself. I’m not really sure what to do because this makes me feel really bad and it makes me feel used however they’re going through a really hard time in life so I don’t just want to abandon them. I understand that they’re going through a hard time, but at the same time I feel like I should be treated at least a little bit better. I don’t know if I’m being selfish or if I’m being valid because they really are going through a rough time. I’m just not really sure how to bring this up with them without sounding selfish. Also, I don’t know if they even know what they’re doing is wrong because they have autism.