Just not sure how to feel about this, it’s been impacting my self esteem a lot. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years, and of course as new relationships would have sex almost every day. Lately it’s now once a month, if that. Right now we’re hitting 2 months. I just don’t get it. He workouts regularly, gets hard often, and makes sex comments towards me. Like everything seems like it’d be fine. But, it never actually happens. Last night really bothered me because he made a point of ALL DAY saying that we were going to have a special night. Nope. When I tell him how I feel he just says sex isn’t important in a relationship. I don’t have a high sex drive myself, but it’s more about feeling wanted.
What’s everyone’s thoughts? I mean I am considered an attractive woman, men flirt with me often. But I want my boyfriend’s attention, not others. I just don’t see how a 28 year old man can go this long if he’s not cheating