TL;DR: My ex said he might not want to get back with me because we "don't click". Is this a normal feeling, and can it be fixed?
I'm in high school. My ex (16M) and I (16F) are still in contact because (as much as he denies it) I believe we want to work things out. We've been talking about compromising things and he brought up how he might not even want to get back with me because we "don't click". I started getting a bit irritated because he never brought this up while we were together (almost 2 years).
I told him that feeling is normal. Every relationship is going to have its dull moments, bad moments, really great moments, and sad moments. What matters is how the two overcome them together instead of cutting ties. My dad has told me that him and my mom have had those moments, my ex and his parents, even his best friend and his girlfriend have had those moments. Are these moments normal, and can they be fixed? More specifically, can "not clicking" be fixed, and how?
He's admitted he's being very avoidant because he's hurt, but I'm still trying to work things out to the best of my ability.
(Had to repost)