25F here, met 25M on hinge and we met. after the first meet they said, they are not sure about a long term relationship, can see us being good friends, totally down to hangout, if I am upto. I didnt feel him bneing just polite from his words, and I was also unsure after just one meet and dont want to escalate to dating yet, so that sounded very good to me and I agreed. we hungout once and it was very nice (I stay a bit far from his city, I visit the place often usually). He repeatedly asked me to ping him when I around and all, so I ping him when I plan my visit and very excited to meet him. he is busy with other engagements and work the last two times I pinged him, so couldnt meet. I thought it might be pressuring for him and also I was feeling a bit awkward to announce him all the time I am visiting while he is caught up with work.(he is not a texter, so I called him once to know if he is available, he said he'll call back, but never did. I felt a bit off).so I told him to let me know when he is in a space to meet, and I'd like it. he sort of ignored that, responding just to another message that I sent(not checking on him, but some event details that we were interested). (fyi, on the second meet, he missed my text about meeting confirmation, but he stepped up and made the plan and showed up).
I dont know, now I feel like I was just imagining things? I am also worried if I have put too much on him which was the opposite of what I intended to do.