Me and my husband just had a big argument. I threatened to leave, he has been really snappy and negative recently. It's upset me and I want to escape. When I went to pack my bag just now he said he is under immense pressure with bills etc and that I'm not making effort for him anymore….neither of us are happy at present. Our child claims most of my attention and the ratty behaviour turns me off. I guess this is common when kids come along. How do you balance mum and wife roles?
Why wait until I'm packing a bag to claim victim? Is this an act?