My bf and I have a history of sexual issues. It seems like we are not compatible a lot, but then we have some streaks of being really happy and it seems like we are compatible. I am trying to get to the bottom of this and figure out how to fix it.
So at the beginning of the year I discovered that he might like men. He says he is unsure, like bi curious or idk. But has wanted me to eat his ass and apparently he cums really good from it. Idk if that’s even related but he seems to think so. I have offered to massage his prostate or whatever else but he says he might ‘want more’ or realize he’s bi or something. He seems uncomfortable with me doing it for some reason. He did say he doesn’t want me to do that and ‘make these feelings worse’. I think personally he might just like or want a prostate orgasm and it doesn’t really have to do with being bi but then again I am straight so I have no idea. Like he could just think it’ll make him feel bi or something. Idk really. I am not ok with him seeing anyone else man or woman. So, I’m trying to figure out some things that he may like without pushing his limits but still satisfying him? Eating ass is not exactly my favorite thing ever but I do it so he’s happy. It’s just whatever to me but it makes his day so I’ll do it, u know? Are there other things we can do that don’t involve more people so he’s happy? How can he tell if it’s just him wanting a better orgasm vs being into men? Any other advice is welcomed. Thanks!