Link: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/s/vlAnnutU8u
Ended up leaving a relationship and had a lot of insight and help from people on here. It was helpful to see what some of you thought on my situation.
In the end I (24 f) was asking him (35m)for my stuff back and he was getting very petty about it and told me he would leave it outside (keep in mind I live in a huge apartment complex which he has the code to) I asked him to at least maybe give it to the doorman. Everything became an argument after I broke up with him
And then I thanked him for dropping them off whenever he could and he sent me an audio message of all of his girl friends laughing at me and basically calling me pathetic. That stung. I blocked him immediately after that. I couldn’t believe he had let them read my messages and sent them laughing to me. I’m really hurt over it. I just moved here a few months ago and I don’t know many other people. I’m glad he’s out of my life. When everyone said what he was doing was absuive I was like him? No way! He cant be abusive. And when I got that audio message everything just clicked and I realized how cruel it all was. I’m really shocked and sad.
Tl;dr; Believe people when they show you their true colors the first time