Basically the title. I've been dating a guy for weeks who is really, really nice, we get along, we agree on important stuff and I'm very attracted to him as well.
But I hooked up with him before New Years and the sex wasn't very good. He didn't kiss me at all, he put my into weird positions that may have felt good for him, but not for me (I had to tell him my body couldn't bend certain ways at some point) and he didn't tell me or indicate in any way when he came. Also some other stuff that – A lot of it seems like inexperience to me, and while he wasn't a virgin, I'm pretty sure it's been a while for him (has been for me as well lol).
Since then, I've been debating on still seeing him and working together on how it can feel good for the both of us. And I'm sure it could potentially improve, but my last relationship lasted almost 6 years and my ex-bf wasn't very good either. Didn't make me come ever and stopped even trying the last couple of years. I think that's why I need to know sex will be at least decent before getting serious with someone.
How do I tell the guy all of this without shattering his confidence completely? He's pretty sensitivite and inexperienced when it comes to dating. And so nice, it really breaks my heart that I can't seem to get past the sex thing.