genuinely I have no idea what to do anymore and I'm kind of heartbroken for myself, and my boyfriend. I've never had pain putting in a tampon before or anything of the sorts, but sex hurts so bad. it's not even a slight pinch , it's genuine awful pain that I can't just ignore. We've tried multiple positions, we've tried lube. none of this helps. does anybody have any advice? – to add on, it's like a pain that's like rubbing against super raw skin or an open wound. doesn't matter if it's the first time in months doing it. it's always the same pain.