I (29f) and my husband (27m) have only been married a few months but have been together almost 8 years. We met when we were a lot younger and had different interests. We’ve lived together for over two years and I just feel so disconnected from him. He is depressed and anxious and is in therapy and on medication for both, but still enjoys a lot of things. The problem is it seems like he never enjoys anything he’s doing with me and frequently just leaves to do something alone he’d rather be doing. We pretty much just eat dinner together and then he disappears. I have told him numerous times that I need more connection and he just ends up telling me he is an introvert and needs some time to himself. He doesn’t see how badly I want to be with him and it doesn’t seem like he cares. Since getting married I’ve been trying to plan more for the future (kids, refinancing the house, combining finances) and I keep trying to discuss these things with him but he just gets overwhelmed and shuts the conversation down. I know a lot of this has to do with the fact that I have more of a career and he doesn’t and wants to feel more stable but he refuses to take any steps to get there. I am tired of begging him to be with me and to get his life together so that we can advance our life together. Any advice on what i should do or suggestions on a way to get through to him?