I (19F) have been dating my bf (20M) for 2 years. I’m worried my bf loves me more than I love him and it makes me feel horrible. He’s amazing at expressing how much he adores me and always knows exactly how to comfort me in the way that I need. I couldn’t imagine my life without him and he’s my best friend on top of being the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. It’s hard to put into words, but I almost feel like I’m not capable of expressing that same amount of love whatsoever, or at least not at the same capacity. I feel as though what I can offer isn’t enough even though yes, I am there for him and I do make it clear how much I love him, mostly through my actions. This isn’t a matter of him not feeling loved, more so me not feeling like I’m capable of loving him as much as he deserves. I know he feels loved immensely as even when we were simply best friends he told me that my presence in his life had drastically improved his mental health which was in the gutter.
I’ve mentioned this all to him before without trying to make a conversation of it, so he is aware of my feelings. Since we began dating and even over the last year, my feelings have only grown for him. I just worry that he’s not feeling as much love from me as I’d like him to. Is this normal? How do I approach this as a topic of a discussion without making it seem like I’m losing feelings for him?
TL;DR- I’m beginning to worry that I can’t give my bf the love he deserves even though he’s the light of my life.