Sometimes my wife (F41) wears lingerie and bra to bed, but when I (M43) initiate intimacy she isn’t interested. I initiate more often and am frequently rejected, although she does initiate sometimes (and sex is good for both) After rejection, I often find it emotionally hard to sleep in the same bed and feel like sleeping elsewhere, while she doesn’t seem affected. Because of this, I’ve started wondering whether I should stop initiating, and I’m looking for advice from others who’ve experienced something similar.