I've been talking to this guy for over the past month (we have been on one date so far and figuring out when to plan our 2nd date, it's been busy with the holidays). We have been messaging and send each other around 15 texts since we have multiple comvos going on at once. It takes me forever to reply to these because I want to come up with thoughtful replies. If it takes me more than several hours to text back, I send a quick "brb busy day" or "brb doing xyz right now" text and then I'll end up replying back to his messages later (whenever I am free again, still within the same day). I've been doing this a lot. Could this come off like a turn-off if I'm doing it too much? I'm worried it looks like I'm disrupting our flow of texting or something.

If he takes a whole day to reply, he doesn't send any sort of "brb" text, he just gets back to me when he does and I've been fine with that.


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