I’ve talked to him about it and I’ve let him know how much I enjoy it, we are long distance, I got disappointed the first time we met that he did not try eating me out I thought maybe because I haven’t shaved lol but we met again and again and he still hasn’t done it even after I directly told him about it.
Btw we are both each other’s first time in everything. We haven’t had sex but generally we do other things. He’s very touchy and always all over me, kissing me and a lot of times he starts to finger me and wants me to get there, like I do see he puts soo much effort onto making me feel great.
Also, even when I’ve tried to give him oral, he’s showed discomfort, I’ve asked if he generally doesn’t like oral he said no it’s just that he doesn’t feel great if we are not clean!! Clearly there were so many times we took a shower together and he’s touched me after the shower but never went down! So I don’t think his excuse makes sense.
The reason I haven’t verbally told him right at that moment was I didn’t want to put him in an uncomfortable situation or feel like I am forcing it into him. Like I don’t wanna be pushy.
Another thing, when we go back to long distance, on FaceTime he would always describe or pretend to be eating me out but when it comes to real action when we’re together he just never!! 😭😭 and this time honestly I am really really pissed because he told me he would do it when we meet again and I cannot believe he didn’t even try at least one lick!!! Like is he disgusted at me?? Does he not like how it looks?? Honestly I am bi sexual and do think I am pretty attractive I don’t know what makes it so hard for him. I like a guy who loves eating me out. The only reason I am sticking with this guy is I am assuming because it is his first time he might be nervous or don’t know how to go about it.
But from another guy’s perspective or if any of you have been through the same, what do you think this could be about??
I question if it is because he doesn’t like how it looks? Btw I am not insecure at all and don’t even know why he wouldn’t like the way it looks because to me it looks so cute lmaoo, idk if it is because mine is a bit darker than my actual skin tone but I know it is just natural and I don’t have big issue with it but he is making me to start question what about it he doesn’t like or why’s he not willing to try…