I've been in a relationship for almost seven years. Everything was fine for the first five years. In the sixth year, we decided to have a baby and managed to get pregnant, but with some complications (posterior placenta previa). We had been forbidden from having sex, but because we wanted to be together, we had intercourse, and afterwards there was bleeding. We ended up in the emergency room thinking something had happened to the baby, and they told us she was fine but that we shouldn't have sex and that we should stop doing prenatal exercises to prevent bleeding between the placenta and the uterine wall. Anyway, a few months later we wanted to try again, and the bleeding happened again, so we decided not to try again for fear of harming our baby. After giving birth, everything went well and without problems. We're waiting for her quarantine, but the fact is, her libido seems to have dropped drastically, and now she doesn't want anything at all. The baby will be one year old this month, thank God, and we've only done it maybe five times this whole year. I feel like she doesn't want it, and I've tried countless times and been rejected every single time. Even though I feel like our relationship isn't bad emotionally because we're still a team, the sexual aspect is killing me (obviously, I haven't tried to be unfaithful, although sometimes I get the urge to let loose). I understand that her body went through many changes to have our little one, and her mind too, which is why I value everything she's done physically and emotionally because she's sacrificed so much to be by my side. But I feel like this can't wait any longer, and I don't want to force her to make love with me since she should also enjoy the moment. But I don't know, maybe I've dragged it out too much, even though we've talked about it a couple of times, and her issue is that she's not feeling well mentally, or that she's… She's tired from the baby, or she doesn't feel sexy, and even though I've told her countless times that she's incredible, beautiful, and so much more, she can't shake this feeling. I suggested she see a psychologist or marriage therapist, and she says she can fix her problem, but I need to give it time because she doesn't know how or how long it will take. She sees me and sometimes feels guilty because I want so much with her, and she doesn't. Sometimes she gets frustrated and cries, telling me I should find someone else because she can't. There are many situations like this… I don't know where I stand, I don't know if this will work. I don't want to separate, and neither does she. I don't want my baby to grow up in a family where the mom and dad live separately, no matter how normalized it is. I'm very family-oriented, and I'm VERY worried about what might happen in the future. I have so much uncertainty… Thank you in advance for your answers and for reading this, which got quite long. Sorry, guys. 😁