I (21 bi m) and my almost bf also (21m) ended things after 3 days. No this isn't much of a "we've been together for years" kinda post, more of a conversation starter and a question.
I've always loved relationships reading about them, watching them, even dreaming about them however, they haven't loved me back. Most of the time it's my own feelings, we dont click, they don't care, I don't feel comfortable with them etc. Most of my relationships end before even 6 months and with the recent discovery that I may be cupioromantic (having very little to no romantic attraction but still desiring a relationship) and, being a hopeless romantic, i can't help but cry for what could've been.
He was great, funny, bratty(in a good way), smart and beautiful. But I don't know he had "others" and that he was in a almost poly situation. It hurt and with being cheated on, lied to and abandoned in the past it brought back a lot of memories but, I felt the most sad about what we could've had. I'm aware it was "only 3 days" but how do I mourn what wasn't and now won't?
How do you deal/cope with the end of what could've?
TL;DR; : I (21 m) and almost bf (21 m) broke up and now I'm not sure how to understand or ""mourn" what could've been.