Hello i am an arab woman I came here one month ago and I found out that my husband has a debt of 18k I was very shocked because before marriage he told me he was financially stable and had savings ( stocks he told me he dont want to touch it only for urgencies) he said he didn’t expect to go over budget but it is still confusing to me because he has been living here for five years and still struggles with expenses ! I chose him because he is a good man i felt in love with him but I was not going to marry without asking questions .. i asked him if he was financially stable and he told me not to worry and not to work I have a small e-commerce business and he said I could continue working on that ! Now I am thinking about helping him pay the debt but I am scared he might start depending on me i don’t like this situation and I am not comfortable with a 50/50 arrangement ! His always worried about the debt and keeps talking about money and because of this I couldn’t even enjoy my honeymoon properly .. lately I’ve been feeling very sad because I didn’t want our marriage to start this way ! I need advice am I asking too much or should I help him and stand with him ! Should i protect my money and let him lead ! Am really afraid of not having financial stability dubai is so expensive am only 25 only married for a month and life already started hard !
would truly appreciate any advice please advice me from the bottom of your heart as if am your sister