I (19M) met this woman (25F) about a month ago through a mutual friend in college. I was hanging out with him and suddenly she showed up. There was instant chemestry between us, and even our friend noticed it. We met the next few days, and hung out for a while. I didn't have her number or anything, we just "ran into each other". That very same week, there was a party in our university, which we both attended. We talked and danced all night, and she walked with me towards the exit when i was gonna leave, at which point we talked about the chemestry we felt. She confessed that we didn't actually "ran into each other" but rather she purposely passed through my school hoping to find me. I asked for her number, she gave it to me and we started talking. We've been talking, uninterrupted, every single day, for more than a month and a half. On the day of my birthday (which is in december) we met, and we spent the entire night together. We kissed. We saw eachother a few more times after that, and we kissed once again. All in all, she's very flirty with me and very caring for me. She says she likes me and is into me. However, she has said in many occasions that she isn't looking for "anything more", and i guess that's alright. I'd believe she only wants some fun if it wasn't for the fact that she constantly engages romantically with me, and even she herself gets surprised at how romantic she is towards me. We haven't had sex, not for lack of opportunity, but rather for our genuine romantic inclination towards each other, that makes us do "couple things", such as going on walks holding hands, or giving gifts to each other. She says that she wants it to be special when we actually do have sex. This is fundamentally incompatible with the idea of casual fun, in my eyes.
She says that she isn't interested romantically, but her actions say otherwise. We have had multiple conversations about it, and even though we both conclude that it should remain "casual fun", every night we stay up until 3:00 A.M talking about how much we like each other, flirting and talking about basically anything. She wakes me up with a good morning text. I'm extremely confused here, because i don't know what she wants. Even she is surprised that we've talked every day from the day we met, since she says that hasn't happened with anyone. She says she loves the way i am. Is she romantically attracted to me? Is this some style of casual fun that i am not aware of?