I am in need of some insite or someone to help me think through this. I have been married for 14 years. In 2024 we seperated for a little over a year. This was primarly because my husband became lazy. Not just around the house, but with our relationship as well as his relationship with our children. I worked full time, did everything in and outside of the house, and was still expected to want to be a "wife". You know tale as old as time stuff. I eventually decided to try to work on our marriage one more time and he moved back in. A few months into him being back I found out that the whole time during the seperation he was talking to, exchanging pictures with, and even drove 6-7 hours to meet another woman. Obviously this hit the marriage hard as we already over came infidelity early in the marriage as well as all the feelings that came with being ignored and all that jazz. He claims he only did it under the advice and direction of a so called marriage expert that runs a group called Divorce Stoppers. I am holding him accountable for his actions because he made the concise choise to do it. But do these marriage experts really recommend this to their clients? I don't understand why or how someone would suggest something like that to a marriage that is already borderline divorce. For reference we are right back in our seperation and I no longer see any way this marriage can or would work out.