We have been married for two and a half years and have been living together for a year now. He tries to be a good husband in other aspect except Sex.
Sex is extremely infrequent thing in our marriage. We usually don’t have sex more than once a month, twice if I am lucky. My husband doesn’t have any physical attraction towards me and I don’t think I understand his sexual preferences. The stuff he is into and how he wants to make things spicy is humiliating for me. He wants me to try these things and seduce him. Despite attempting and failing I have gotten no where. I have talked to him about it, in his opinion the only solution is for me to keep trying. This whole situation is very frustrating. He is perfectly content with masterbating and he can live without sex for months and probably years. I have finally decided to give up. Just have a loving companionship.
How can I get over this and never crave or expect any sexual relations from him at all? I would really appreciate some advice and help. I am in a very bad place about this.
PS Talking to my husband and fixing this is a dead end. He only wants me to try things his way which I find myself unable to do while he has zero physical interest in me. Physically and mentally I am exhausted, frustrated and done.