My friend lost his infant daughter a few days ago. He's a pretty close friend, we don't hang out much, but we chat most days. I offered major condolences, I sent a gift card… I don't know what's next. I have no kids, nieces, or nephews, and so I can't even fathom how hard his heart is hurting.
What I don't know is how much to reach out or what to do next. Do I give him space until he's reaching out? Do I try to talk to him normally as a distraction? I've already offered anything I can do to help, of course.
I'm not very good at talking about this stuff… and it's more the style of myself and my family to want to be left alone when tragedy happens. I'm sure he's got plenty going on.
Any suggestions?