I have been feeling ignored for days and mentioned that I wanted to hang out. He said we don’t have to always been around each other, and we can hang out separately and that I was being needy. He’s an introvert and plays lots of video games and watches movies in the garage and tinkers. We don’t talk a lot other than about 15-20 minutes a day. But he also doesn’t hang with other people either. Connection and communization and intimacy are hard to come by anymore after 18 years of marriage. We have been having recent marriage problems for like a month (on an off about it every couple years we have a fight). So I’m wondering if it’s me, or him. Is he just an introverted, midlife, married man that has a lot of solo hobbies? Is this common these days?