Last weekend I (F31) was on holiday for the first time in a long time with bf (M31)
I planned it all, booked it all etc bc it was my choice of holiday.
He spent the entire roadtrip complaining and whining about being sore in the car and tired. I was too but I just went along with it in silence.
I mentioned to him it would be nice if the start of our trip wasn't filled with negativity, we could have stopped more frequently I even told him to when he was sore and he said no. We didn't stop and do any sightseeing like he wanted to either.
In the hotel room, we were talking about trips and going out more, he said:
"When we get back, we should do more nature things."
Meaning when we get back home, because he likes hikes and such with his friends but according to the next statements not with me.
I tell him:
"When we are together on weekends you never want to, you're always too tired. I've asked to go for walks after dinner before or go somewhere on Sunday after we have slept."
Note, we can only hang out on weekends due to work.
Literally all these phrases were tossed at me within 5 minute succession it felt like I was in the circus during a knife throwing stunt.
"What do you mean?"
"You know I'm always tired on the weekend and don't feel like going out"
"I'm tired after work on saturday and it always rains on sunday we've been unlucky"
"You always bring up the past"
"Its like you're making me out to be an asshole"
"I feel like you don't want me here and would rather be here with someone else but you only picked me bc I'm your bf"
All I said was that he never wants to hike with me when I suggest it. But he says "let's do it more" like when?? When it suits you??? Which is never apparently??? Or you just like the idea of saying you like hiking but only do it with your friends??
I also find it strange that he makes time for his friends and then complains to me about them/the trip and how it went.
Also it was my birthday that night. Happy birthday to me.