Before I got married I was a virgin, but I was still "sexual active" in the sense that I had online partners and did things with them…. anyways… now that im married, my libido has gone down and down to the point where I dont feel like having sex EVER really maybe like a few times a month at best.
Is this normal?? Im also on birth control so I think that might have something to do with it, but im not sure. I feel so bad with my husband because he is always asking me about it but also wants to respect my boundaries when I say no, so he's just holding it in basically. We are also Christians and practice actively so we don't do any type of self-pleasuring or things like that, meaning I am his only option.
What can I do?