Every day I (17M) text her a good morning and a good night text. Now I don’t expect her to respond every day as we all have our own lives. But 5 days ago I noticed she created an Instagram account. It was private but I followed her just waiting for an acceptance. Nothing, it’s been 5 days since I sent the request. I have noticed that her following and follower count has gone up. Despite me not getting accepted. I also noticed that her friends are following her (I follow some of her friends and vice versa) which means she would have have to accept the follow requests, or she would of followed them when setting up an Instagram account. Instagram asks you if they can have access to all your contacts so you can follow friends. Before the 2 weeks of no text messages she said that she has been busy and found it hard to text. Which I can understand being busy. But she has plenty of time to create an Instagram account, follow her friends or accept their follow requests, doesn’t accept my follow request (my account is my first and last name) but still follows and accepts others and Im still left on requested. Should I try and meet up with her at school in private (we go to the same school) and talk to her about that, or should I move on from her?

TL;DR – GF hasn’t texted me in 2 weeks claiming she doesn‘t have time, but has time to create an Instagram account, follow her friends, accept their requests, ignore my follow request and continue to accept and follow others.


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