How long could you stay married if you had it made very clear to you that your most deep grief, is not understood by your spouse, or even respected? My dream of becoming a mother is ending, and it’s extremely painful, and painful to be around those blessed with children, right now, it’s just a very very hard time that seems impossible to get through… and after today’s argument it’s been made very clear to me that he has no sympathy or empathy for what I’m going through. He threw many things in my face that are triggers for me, and it’s always hurt that I’ve gone through this pain alone, he’s never shown any real emotion when we’ve had a miscarriage or the years of trying. Today he basically called me a monster and said I was horrible for not being able to be around those having children right now, bc it just is so upsetting for me even tho I don’t want that. He wanted to know why i could be around friends who had children years ago but could not handle it now.. i guess this was just a vent but i don’t know what to do. I’m so alone in it all.