So me m24 and my gf f24 have been together for almost 4 years I have quit my job and went to Mexico for her now I am living with her and her family. So ill just explain what happened so today we had a great day went to the mall and got her a new jacket and then we can home but at home we have this event going on where people set up stuff for the "3 kings" anyways so ill just explain that today at the mall this younger guy came up to me and asked me about my hair and how I get it styled and whatever so I admired that a lot I thought it was cute and it felt good.
Thats not where the problem started it started when we were at the event just like 20 minutes ago and this young girl was looking at me probably like 12 or 13 years old because im white in a different colored neighborhood and I think me and my woman are both more on the attractive side. But thats probably why she was starring at me. So in the moment she was doing that I told my woman hey look at this girl because it was cute how she's was so memorized by me.
THEN BOOM. "W** is wrong with you thats a little kid your sick in your head" in my mind I was like what is happening right now. My lady always also tells me when people are looking at me and memorized by my looks and I think thats adorable because it's the same way on her side. I see people looking at my woman just young kids or teenagers and I think it's cute because my woman's so gorgeous and when they see her it's like WOWWWW.
But anyways we came home no one is home and then im like w** is wrong with you. You make it seem weird, you make it seem like I like kids or whatever. She proseeds to call p file and that I need help and im just like loosing my mind like what is happening right now. She told me to stfu and I told her back the same stuff and then she threw something at me and then I was like your disgusting and need help in your head because I dont think that way it's just disgusting. Anyways I said I was buying my flight back to my country. But obviously I didn't and I dont know what to do.
I just feel so offended and I don't know how this made me look like that in her eyes and I just dont know what to do? Like in my head how the hell can she even say that to me thats such a horrible disgusting thing to say. But am I weird? I thought it was something so innocent and thats why I was happy to tell her but why do I get called this? What do you guys think? Should I leave or what should I do? She so stubborn and its so hard for her to understand me it honestly makes me sad and disgusted that she can think of me or say that about me. What do I do?
TL;DR Me M24 and my gf f24 accused me of being disgusting for feeling admiration from children towards me.