I want advice on asking my boyfriend 20M to move out. When we first started dating he spent a lot of time hanging around my place and essentially spent most of his time here but I was quite clear to him that I don't want him moving in, that I'm the only person on the contract with my landlord etc. after 2 months he said he cant afford his payment for university accommodation so I said he could stay with me until he can continue living there again. It has now been a year and a half and I just brought up the topic of him moving out. I tried to explain I feel like we rushed into him moving in and I want to experience living on my own as we both haven't really had the opportunity to yet (we started dating after only 3 months of me getting my first place and he was in accommodation for only about 2 months) and that I feel like he kind of treats me like his mum making me all the house work, shop and clean for him. He kind of shut down and kept repeating "that isn't something I'd really like to do" and when I brought up wanting to focus on my studies it became "well I've talked to people in your uni and they say it becomes easier from next year" (I am a medical student and that's when we start doing actual work with patients which I am terrified for and still think its equally as hard as this year) then refused to continue the conversation and made a point to sniffle and kind of fake cry on the sofa in front of me??? which he hasn't ever really done anything like this before. He doesn't pay rent or utilities and only in December has started contributing a little towards groceries. I don't know how to bring it up again, I definitely want him to move out but I don't know what to do when he reacts like that and doesn't talk to me. I also feel bad cause he said he cant apply for uni accommodation half way throughout the year and his parents home is 3h drive from our town, but he only goes to classes every other weekend.
I honestly dont know how to move on from this and any advice on this