I’ve been married to hubby for nearly 20 years. For the last 10 years part of our sex life has involved discussing each other prior sex lives. If I’m being honest it was me who started this – I did it with an old boyfriend and enjoyed it. Hubby was initially a bit surprised and out of his comfort zone by it but soon got into it and enjoyed as much as I did.
Lately it’s been my husband who has ramped things up, without beating around the bush he’s asked me to “tease” him when talking about my past – I say tease because this is how he describes it but if I’m being honest it’s more like humiliation. He wants to know who was better, bigger, stronger, gave me best orgasms etc etc
A bit like he was at the start, I was a bit out of my comfort zone but found myself getting into it and am now ok with it – ok if it doesn’t go any further. I say that because curiosity got the better of me and I started to investigate if this was a known kink and ended up at cuckolding. I’m petrified that this is where he may knowingly or unknowingly end up.
Im 100% with things the way they are. But I’ve made it clear that I never want to involve a third (or fourth) into our relationship and he says that he doesn’t either. I worried that I opened a can of worms years ago when I started.
Interested if anyone has been in a similar situation or has a similar kink- what’s the end game – do things stop at this or is it a red flag of things to come??
Thanks
Edit –
Id hate for him to even want to go me sleeping with someone else even – in his own head. But I’m getting the feeling that this may be where this type of thing ends up?