Hey Redditor’s, throwaway account as I don’t want it coming back to my name however I feel like I’m in a bit of a pickle with this one and just want some advice on what to do.
Basically I was sitting beside him the other night and he opened Snapchat to search for an effect but as he hit the search bar there was a few recent searches and I obvs don’t know when they would have been searched. Although I could tell from the bitmojis it was all females I didn’t ask about it there and then cause I was taken a back abit and kind of just went mute trying to ignore it.
However curiosity getting the better of me and overthinking it alot I did end up going on his phone today while he was in the shower to look and see who he was searching (I know not cool of me but so what). Anyway most searches were like really public profiles (influencers like) which was fine but I seen a name I recognised and was like huh why would he be searching her up. I clicked on the chat to see if there had been any recent conversations with her but the thing I saw made me feel sick to my stomach. It was nudes! I clicked away so fast as I didn’t want to look at that but the issue now is I don’t know what date it was sent as I clicked away to fast before looking.
Now I’ve just been thinking about it all day because 1) are you chatting to her and clearing the chat from your feed and the going to search her name up when you want to chat again or 2) are you going back to these nudes for your own pleasure…I’m sure yous know what I mean.
I just don’t know why he would need to be in that chat where there are saved nudes and also not sure if there’s more to this.
I’m not sure if I should speak to him about this and find out or just leave it as it is? I’ve no reason to believe he would be cheating on me but then also like why are you going into the chat and how many times and what for. I’m confused I feel sick and just don’t know what to do right now.
Apologies this is abit long but all advice would be much appreciated as I’m feeling lost rn.
EDIT: update I just had a nosey on his phone again before starting the conversation to find out the date. It was dated August 2020 so way before we got together. I think he was searching to look at the photo or likely talking to his boys (he could have possibly seen her out and it sparked the thought to check the chat)