I love the girl, she’s a saint, we’ve been together for nearly 4.5 years been on multiple holidays together, the relationship looks perfect from the outside perspective.
However I’m not 100% sure I feel it anymore, I still have feelings for her but I feel like it’s fizzling away a bit. I feel we bicker more than the usual couple because we both like certain things done certain ways and other things we don’t care. We’re both stubborn but I do try to compromise where I can but I don’t think it’s healthy in the long run as she finds it really difficult to admit she’s wrong. She’s definitely got a fair dose of OCD and I dont think I can cope with it long term.
I like the idea of going away on solo trips or even just moving into an apartment on my own. I can’t make heads or tails of what best.
I’m not one to be fussed on getting married and I don’t want kids, now I’m not sure whether it’s something that stick or whether it’s the wrong person or whether it’ll change in my 30s but I’m worried about getting a place in our names and it crumbles.
Has anyone been in any similar position before and has advice for the best outcome?